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Do not allow negative people to turn you into one of them.
Some people are life-sucking, energy-draining, negative bags of annoying hell. Kindly avoid them. Walk away from anything that gives you bad vibes. There is no need to explain or sense of it. It's your life. Do what makes you happy.
In the book How To Deal With Difficult People, Bo Sanchez compared negative People to Vampires. I highly recommend you to read this book because it will help you learn the art of protecting yourself from the Vampires in your life and loving them wisely. This book will give you life-changing lessons on how to deal with difficult people.
There are too many types of Vampires or difficult people in the world today. Again, difficult people are like Vampires. Here are the common types of difficult people according to Bo Sanchez.
This difficult person believes that his divine mission is to correct the wrongs of this world. He's on a crusade. And he feels righteous indignation. He doesn't feel happy if a conversation with you ends without him pointing out your errors.
This difficult person is confrontational. Pushy Aggressive. And he'll use his forceful personality or his anger to intimidate others.
Contradicting Vampires aren't only pessimistic. Sometimes, they will also make you feel stupid for being so optimistic.
To this Vampire, everything is a catastrophe. This difficult person sees himself as a giant victim of life's catastrophes.
Clinging Vampires can be friends, or boyfriends, or girlfriends, or followers. They cling to you, holding on to you for dear life. They will make you feel that their entire life is now totally dependent on you. Their entire self-esteem is almost based on your presence in their life.
These are people who are overly sensitive.
These are people who couldn't say "no" to people's requests.
This Vampire is so good at lying, he/she actually, sincerely, honestly believes in her own lies.
As I share them with you, always self-reflect. Maybe you're a vampire or a difficult person to others also. Instead, ask yourself, "Which Vampire am I?"
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Hi, I'm Ralph Gregore Masalihit!
An RFP Graduate (Registered Financial Planner Institute - Philippines).
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